WE want atleast 4

[*Elle*]

I just wanted to say that I so know how you feel, this is a real issue for us too we have so many family and friends saying why ???? why would you want more than 2 what about money what about the way the world is what about this what about that they will miss out on so much its not when they are young its when they get older blaa blaa blaa, and it drives me mad we want 4 deffinately and may even have more but will see how things go,

so many people think they have the right to tell you the way it should be, I am of the opinion that they do not have to raise them or pay for them etc... so it is not their business, you are all an inspiration.

I am a mum thats what I am and thats what I want to be I have never really had any real career aspirations and this is what I love to do so whats so wrong with that, why do people have to have an opinion about it grrrrr.

I love the thought that when our kids are older they will have eachother I love being close to my 2 brothers I am so proud of them and love being around them and watching the things they do with their lives thats family and what is more important than that ???? nothing IMO

[tiggy]

Amy I agree with you wholeheartedly!
IMO, people are going to be judgemental, no matter what. You have to do what is right for you!