Big hugs... I don't think you shouldn't see your husband - however tackling it the way you have hasn't helped you spend time together.

It is important to work together. I don't know what this camp is - but it sounds like a good idea.
There must only be a afew weeks left of school and then he will have to work or apply for a centrelink benefit.

Try and step back and see it from all sides. I can hear your frustration...