Well we have had a 4 year journey to our fourth child, due in about 8 weeks. I knew quite strongly after baby #3 that I was not done, and I always said that I wanted 4 or more children. Dh would have been happy with 2. We didn't anticipate the long journey of TTC and miscarriage so the four year age gap would have been smaller.

I feel quite strongly this time round that this baby is our final baby. I could be fine with 5 but I'm honestly feeling content with the idea of four, with this baby being our last. I never say never but eventually reasoning has to come into play.