I was well and truly done after 4, then DD3 decided she wanted to make her way into our family too. I knew #5 baby would be our final and DH got a vasectomy. Now, 2+ yrs later, we'd both love #6. I'm okay with no more but we both agreed that we would have had more if we could, both physically & financially. I guess the vasectomy was the best thing as I wonder if I'd ever get that feeling of being done.
I was happy with 3. I still have moments where I think about only 3, since DS started school this year. I love DD3 to death, but she's holding up the show
DD3 was not planned. And was sent to make sure I'm done (I say this as she pulls off my clothes & rocks on the clothes horse). She's just starting to toilet train & finally sleeping most of the night, so I'm finally only just feeling like I'm getting some of myself back.
If I meet someone with no kids & he's supportive, I might consider another one, but not unless I have FULL support. I've raised 4 alone, there's no way I'll do it again.
All I've done since I was way too young was raise kids. I'm waiting impatiently for me time
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What if I'm not done...
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