We had always planned on 4. Once they were all here we kind of decided together that we would have one more. Would have been nice to be a little girl but we got a beautiful little boy. Wouldn't change it at all as we're all kind of focused on boy things iykwim. Are we done? I keep telling myself yes, it's hard work being a mum and doing the newborn thing over and over - but I still long for a girl. I think my husband would agree to one more if I asked. He has even brought it up on occasion. Would definitely give it a longer gap though and enjoy every second in a more relaxed way. I thought I would be done at 4, then I thought I would be done at 5 - maybe I'm just to easily lead when I look at the little gummy smiles I get. Why do they have to keep sucking me in! With their cuteness!!!