i would like to say as being a mum of 4 and twins on the way #4 was the hardest for me
Thank you for your response Cheeki! Your reply is very helpful, and I appreciate your frankness. I am having quite a difficult/emotional struggle at the moment......and really appreciate EVERYONES responses - particularly from those of you that have had 4 close in age - because it is very helpful to me.

Many thanks again,

xx