As you said Lara, that was the biggest thing that stood out to me - you all made the decision to stay, but you weren't consulted when plans changed. I think if you were consulted, even if it turned out the same, you would have been disappointed but not angry y'know? If its a once off thing its not too bad, but it might be a good time to think back over the relationship and see if its a recurring problem. Like yourself, I have trouble diffusing anger, but at the same time I'll rarely tell anyone they've upset me, which can lead to serious problems later on, because I've never truly gotten over little things in the past.

HTH