Misty I get what you are saying and perhaps so...but I just can't seem to gel it altogether..its totally out of my control now...
Now I have other things to deal with, getting garage door fixed,(because of robbery - mum is in a villa) taking mum to drs ....and I am not well myself.
It just might have to be we do this another time when mum is better.....I think it was just unfortunate she was unwell and had to go to hospital but I understand they cant change their travel plans....my brothers birthday is next month..perhaps we could do something else
But all is not lost my older brother and his wife can make the journey to see them this weekend...so they wont be totally without family
I wish I could wave a magic wand and mum is better so we can make the long journey.
I have to take care of her tomorrow so don't know how I could make it and commonwealth respite cant help this time.
I think I need to take a breather..it's difficult being a carer sometimes. All is not lost..he isn't 50 yet..we will have to do it another time.Sorry for rambing..my thoughts are all over the show.