Asking for things back because you're not friends with someone anymore??

[Cocolove]

I also have her a 0-4 car seat, which I dont want back!

Yes my gut tells me im being spiteful and immature generally I would usually just say, oh well thats the way life goes.

But she has really made my blood boil, shes never said thank you for it, never thanked me for all the times i had her kids so she could manahe work AND uni, she is just a very ungreatful person

[mummame]

if you are at all hoping to reconcile the relationship than I would sit back and allow her to keep the capsule but if you are completely done with the friendship then tell her you need it back for your own baby.

[Cocolove]

if you are at all hoping to reconcile the relationship than I would sit back and allow her to keep the capsule but if you are completely done with the friendship then tell her you need it back for your own baby.

I am so done!

We havnt had a fight or anything, i am just sick of her ungreatful behaviour so ive walked away, deleted from fb (which we all know is the be all and end all of society *sigh*) so im done and dusted!

[Phteven]

Yes my gut tells me im being spiteful and immature generally I would usually just say, oh well thats the way life goes.

Your gut tells you that you are doing it out of spite. That's fine. Acknowledge that you're being spiteful and that that probably puts you pretty much on the same level as her. Ask for it back. Enjoy making her squirm and move on.