if you are at all hoping to reconcile the relationship than I would sit back and allow her to keep the capsule but if you are completely done with the friendship then tell her you need it back for your own baby.
I am so done!

We havnt had a fight or anything, i am just sick of her ungreatful behaviour so ive walked away, deleted from fb (which we all know is the be all and end all of society *sigh*) so im done and dusted!