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The thing with the presents im not sure about is if you go to a shower and buy a present do you then get something else for that person when the baby is born?
I don't think there is any hard and fast rule that says yes or no to that, good point though. I guess the other thing to consider is WHO is invited to the baby shower.

Mine is mainly friends and only 2 of my SIL's, I figured my extended family would be far more interested in coming to see me once I have someone to show them

Nae x