for me, i had a baby shower with DD1 because i wanted to get together with all the girls in my family who i hadnt seen for a while, and also, i had a cousin who was a week ahead of me.. so it was a good chance to catch up!

i didnt expect presents, but i knew i would get some- which ranged from a teddy bear, to a huge tub full of baby stuff!

i have been to a couple of baby showers, and bought a gift within my budget. i think thats fair enough.

if you were adamant you didnt want presents, you could say so on the invite... otherwise, i think people would bring a gift anyways!