thank - you. Family members are busy with work or live interstate or country towns.
I have access to Com. Respite and utilise them on the weekends(if I need to do some shopping).
The person I care for DOES not want to go into care and ACAT assessed them for low level in
home care which they receive. I may be able access more days/hours. To get high level care in home, I have been told (by ACAT) there is an 18month waiting list.

Family members keep stipulating what I need to do and a good friend of the person I care for phoned me today and has told me to (temp leave my husband) and go live with this person full - time. I am not sure If I am emotionally strong enough as they can get a little emotionally abusive. I have some health issues of my own, whereby I suffer from chronic tiredness. I don't drive so I rely on public transport.
I may need to speak with a counseller again to see how I can work through this.

What I want now is a really BIG sleep and some TLC. thanks again.