I can see how you would be hurt and offended. You've seen the photo now so that's good. I also agree that at the end of the day your brother had no obligation to show you and really he just displayed a lack of manners. But then again he is a man and i agree some men just don't think the way we do. I think it might be time to let it go. It's done and over with now. There's no point agonizing over it anymore. :-)