I would. And I would've loved to see more kids at Ianto's funeral too. If its possible, funerals always seem much too somber for something that should be celebrating life. Kids - yes, even the ones running around - brighten things up. If Ianto had lived for a few years before he died, I would have been sad to *not* see his little friends there.

BUT! I'm realizing I'm possibly a minority here. Some parents might not want other kids there. I'd say your best bet would be to ask the little girl's parents (or someone close to them so they're not inundated with questions)