I also support the staying in the public system. But push for further reviews. Don't give up on it - even once he hits rehab.

As a side note, MOST Private Consultants also work in the Public Hospitals as well. Even if it's only a few days a week or month.

In terms of fundraising, wait and see how he goes in rehab. Depending on how he progresses and adjusts there, he may need some stuff at home or modifications - you could approach groups like Rotary to see if they can assist you. I know my work donates a lot of our old equipment to Rotary as do a lot of other major hospitals in Vic.

This must be very worrying for you - I hope he makes some improvements soon and you can get some answers.