The money was hers to do what she liked with really. If she wanted to buy the kids $100 worth of mixed lollies with it, she could. If you wanted the $100 spent on something specific, you should have either bought the clothes and given them as a gift or gift cards for a clothing store.

No. not at all. The money was given to her to buy clothing for children. If she bought lollies I would come down heavy upon her. The money was to be put to use not abuse. Sorry I don't agree. We are not a bank and money is given for the right reasons.