Thanks for taking the time to give me your ideas - very helpful; sometimes I need to check re etiquette!! My ob has been really outstanding in her dedicated management of my complicated pregnancy, and I agree that good obstetricians should be acknowledged...

PS - Castle, it isn't unusual for me to be up at 3.30am lately! I have sought assistance with my insomnia lately and have been given a relaxation CD which promises to lull you into a wonderful sleep pattern. I might try it tonight!