Its simple....people that dont have kids just DONT GET IT...they never can and never will! Some people think that they do but they dont!!


So you also asked 'how to respond'.... Say simple that "you offered but we never heard and i felt like a dead **** asking about it, when you rang it was far too late to have gotten there and A was a right ferral that night anyway. Sorry i didnt get to my phone that night!"