I get where you're coming from, Blondie and for me, it wouldn't be about the chicken. We have it happen to us a lot, but in our case we get written instructions on what to provide before we get a chance to ask. Bit OTT really! And sometimes expensive too when you get told to provide a dish that will feed 20+ people. But when it's time for it to happen the other way round, empty hands there, so I understand your frustration