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  1. #1
    Lucy in the sky with diamonds.

    Jan 2005
    Funky Town, Vic
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    Go straight over her head and speak to your old boss. Just to call and touch base?

    GL!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    outer South East Melbourne
    2,881

    This is a little hard. Basically when on maternity leave your job is someone elses. Remember that we aren't even guaranteed to get our "own" job back when we return, just one of equal standing. Your situation is a little odd with you working whilst on leave so it's hard to comment on. I personally am going to completely turn off to what's going on whilst I'm off and am prepared to go back to whatever the situation is when the time comes. I just hope my replacement lasts as I have a complex position that has a history of people walking out of it. I will visit the office only to show bubs around the place. I think you need to try to just shut off work until you go back.

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Member
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    May 2004
    Brisbane
    1,814

    Call me cyncical but does she have designs on your job?

    Seems weird that she's suddenly trying to lock you out...especially if she's a friend. What possible motive could she have for that?

    I had a year of maternity leave and I honestly walked out of there at 34 weeks pregnant and didn't give the place another thought until the day before I had to go back You're very committed

  4. #4
    Coralie Guest

    You are very committed Jules

    Hi sweetie girl,

    Yes I agree that you have every right to know what is going on. After all, you are the one who is going to have to clean up her mess. Maybe she didn't want you see how she had mucked the place up.

    Let me know how you got on. You know who I am.

    Love ya lots,

    Coralie

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Member

    Sep 2004
    South Burnett, QLD
    470

    Cora's!!!!! OMG!!!! So good to see you here! How is your little bubba going?! I bet she is just beautiful...and busy. This is a cool age...watching them get into everything. Sammy's been sick (flu) but seems to be slowly getting back to his old self again now. Do you have a facebook page???? Great way to keep in touch...

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