Thanks guys. I think i'm pretty much the same if i've had a drink than if i'm sober. I still dance, laugh, tell stupid stories, eat all the nibbles. I try not to frown on all the drunkards (lol, just kidding!!).
It's only really become an issue because i have always had an excuse before (TTC, pg, breastfeeding). Now i think DH feels he needs to 'explain' for me.

Trillian - do you think it's easier to have a medical excuse? Rather than just 'no, thanks'.

Heaven - i actually don't ever feel pressured to drink, but just that my DH feels like i'm odd.