you're not a social retard!

Although most of the people on here have said they respond fairly quickly, it is only a snap shot of people. I honestly believe that the vast majority of people DON'T RSVP in a suitable time frame (if at all). Now I'm about to make a horrible generalization, but it seems that people are far too self absorbed these days to think about the work and planning that people have to do in order for their child to attend another child's birthday and so therefore couldn't be assed to take 15 seconds out of their day to exhibit the politeness required to actually notify another equally busy adult whether or not their child can attend the party! It drives me MENTAL! Sorry. But I really don't think it is that hard to demonstrate to your (their) child how to be a socially responsible and polite human being by informing someone whether or not you will attend something.

*demounts soap box*

Kat and Onyx, I hope both your boys have awesome parties.

MG