I'm glad I read this, I always thought offering to help would be poorly received like I was telling them they weren't being a good enough mum. I usually give them a smile to try to show I understand, but it probably looks more like a grimace.

So now I know I've been wrong about this. You learn something new every day.
I think it all depends on the mother, some may not want any help and some would really appreciate it, like i did!



I did get some not so nice looks from people when i was wizzing around the store,