Wow complete tosser! Even if he wasn't comfortable with it, don't you think he would go home and check with his wife what was discussed in the first place? They are 5 FFS!
He was actually there when it was being discussed the first time around. He was trying to object then, but we thought he was just mucking around. It's a bit hard to know when this guy is being serious or not but after school today he was deadly serious.

He's a complete tosser. I'm sorry Ashton is having a healthy friendship tarred in this way. How did the mum respond when you told her that her husband said under no circumstances was it to happen?
She was a bit dumbfounded, and said "leave it with me I will talk to him when he gets home" I did stress that I didn't want to "rock the boat" so to speak. I got a msg from the mum about 15 mins ago asking if it was still okay if Ashton slept over. I questioned her about the partner, and she said "don't worry it's all fine" Was a bit hesitant in saying yes, but Ashton was looking forward to it. Might be interesting when I drop his things off soon.

Having said that. I will probably get a phone call in a couple of hours to go pick him up anyway. Last time he stayed over a friends house without his older brothers I had to pick him up around 10