The other night I was out and Ashton was asked if he would like to sleep over on Friday night (tonight) by the mother. Ashton and her little girl are sort of friends.

Today the Dad comes and picks up the little girl and he said "oh I understand Ashton is coming home with us" so I said "yeah I'll come over after tea and drop his stuff off" his reply "what do you mean stuff" and I said "Well the other night I was under the impression he was sleeping over tonight" The dad went right off and said he can stay for tea but he doesn't appreciate boy/girl sleep overs blah blah blah"

I just sent a txt msg to the mum and said "Please let me know when Ashton is ready to be picked up" and apologised for being under the impression he could stay tonight. She said "Oh xxxx said not tonight" and I said "umm no at the school he quite clearly gave the impression of not now not ever cause of being boy/girl"

They are 5. If they were teenager then okay fair enough. What are your views on that. Is the dad just being a tosser? The family knows both Ashton and myself quite well.