SO we will try and use the parents room when out, then the female toilets, then the disabled. All depending on the circumstances. But you what is worse in my books than having someone walking out of the disabled and parents room who is neither disabled or with a child? Is the darn druggies who use the rooms to get high. Once when DD1 was busting to go to the loo, we raced into the parents room. No one was there, no noise, yet the toilets were engaged. After knocking and getting no response, we got ready to find the next bathroom. Then out comes these people who were so high and had left their needles on the floor. And the looks they gave us!! far out I wanted to slap them silly. And whats worse is its happened a few times, and in different shopping centres. Oh and if DH has the girls then he will try the parents room first then go to the disabled toilets, I prefer that to him taking them into the male toilets.