Uncomfortable situation

[BrightSparkles]

i totally agree with everyone else.
My brother and his DF tried to sign us up to... i just had to be firm and tell them NO I"M NOT INTERESTED!

[Matryoshka]

Wow thanks! i'm glad i'm not the only one who thinks its a bit weird.

So i told my dh that when he rings again to just say that nights are really hectic for us as my dh doesn't get hom til 7pm, then we have dinner and bath the boys, put them to bed. We're not done until about 9pm. So it couldn't be a worse time. I said to suggest that he come by on the weekend with his wife and kids so our kids could have a play - kind of making it more of a get together....

But yesterday the guy just left a voicemail asking my dh for our address! as if just assuming he's coming round friday night! I'm getting annoyed now, i really don't want someone coming around that time of night, especially for this kind of thing!

So i told my dh to ring back and suggest my plan, which i hope he understands.

I'm starting to think maybe our first impressions were a little off, because its coming across as pushy now, not the kind of people we want to be friends with.