My wedding last September, I didn't notice what others were wearing. I really thought I would, but I didn't! What got me though, was the photos. I "let" a friend's mum stay for the ceremony, and she just happened to sit right on the aisle - so every photo we have of the bridesmaids and me walking down, there she is in a horrid tracksuit, ratty hair, etc... Like I said, I didn't mind on the day, but I think now that she (or the photographer, who was my only regret for my wedding) could've made an effort to keep her out of the photos. She wasn't even meant to be there

The bride possibly didn't even notice, and maybe she won't mind at all, even after the photos? Maybe she's dressed like that at other people's weddings and they were getting their own back

I'm more peeved about my cousin looking like a prostitute at our nan's funeral than I am that she wore the exact same outfit to my wedding...