Don't get me wrong I do think it is important to respect and honour the couple's wishes - but without being in the position of the attendees thay may have had trouble with outfits - let's say the larger lady for example it is really unfair to judge. I do agree that a minidress is inappropriate to wear to a wedding, but again if that is the closest to semi-formal outfit my friend had and could not afford anything else I would rather her wear that than not attend.

I guess this is a topic that will be independent to each person - but to me, I'll be glad to appreciate the company and forgo any style disasters.