I had not thought about the defamation aspect! Of course I don't want to lie - hence my query, how do I handle this? I like the idea that I wouldn't hire her again for the same position. That works.

And yes, I was very surprised to be called without being worded up first - I think that is very poor form on her part and intend to let her know that.

FabFi, she has moved to a different church now, so I only see her infrequently.