Bathesda out of my 3 bridesmaids 2 came looking at wedding dresses and bridesmaids dresses. 1 even came and picked up my dress and took it home to care for for me so that DH didnt see it.

My matron of honour had a 9 month old baby at my wedding but even when he was little she still came to help with thinsg when i needed unlike my other slack one who did nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!

My 2 helpful ones organised hens nights with tiny amount of help from other one (lucky i had told plenty of people details in advance as she took till 5 days before hens night to ring and invite people))

She didnt even see my dress till the day as it was too much effort for her to come down 3 or 4 levels in building to where bridal shop was!!!!!!!

The ones i have been in have helped a bit with 1 (girl who took my dress home for me) with what ever she needed me to do.

Another non of us helped at all as we all lived a very long way from each other!!! so with dresses it was actually skirt and top. We alll bought skirt from shop she told us too and she has tops that we were paying her back for and was massive luck they all fitted on day!!

Other did a fair bit to help there also.