Lol OP, they're all yours!

I get what you mean ausgirl. I just feel like it's too much. During the week, if Mum is out and sees something she thinks we or the kids need or would like, she gets it. So she bought DD some singlets because she'd wished for one (funny story lol) and she gave us their old bedside lamps because we didn't have any and they updated. We do the same for them, little gifts because they made you think of someone, just because.

I have more of an issue with "there's this event coming up and society dictates I buy you something. This time it's chocolate, so here you go even though you don't want it!"