I don't think a furneral is an appropriate place for a toddler. We took DD to one and all she did was want to run around which bugged a few of the other people there. A week later there was another one and we decided DH would go and I would stay home with DD partly because it was a wet day and partly because ofthe experience we had had the week prior.

That said, neither were family.

Its a tough call, but if you think that DD is likely to want to run around and make noise and would be an unwelcomed disruption then don't do it.

Nae x x