WOW This sounds like My DP... But as in from ur persepctive...
He's always saying its like living with a hose mate as i'm never in the mood... well i am but just too damn tired... once he gets started its fine its just getting me over that F**k i'm too tired tonight stage...
I do however remember when we were TTC... he hated DTD... felt like it wasnt about us and just as feed said a chore.
I think being open and honest to him will really help... my DP has never (to my knowledge) helped himself. he never lets me let him get that far... maybe try some naught TXT msg while he's working make him all excited before he comes home, try some naught lingerie oon his arrival (just a note make sure he's alone when u do this...hence why i dont do the lingerie until i know where alone
) My DS recently informed me he likes when i read the dirty colums aloud in the mens mags... Maybe slip into the shower when he gets in, if u dont mind porn you could be watching a movie together, add some spice to the bedroom, diff positions etc... maybe some toys if ur into that... go away for a weekend to escape... maybe a naught weekend might help.
Perhaps i should join the AO hope i can post this stuff here
wow maybe i should take some of my advice if only i had time (2 kids takes alot out of the adult time) Good luck
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