hi everyone I've been married since June 08 however I've been living with my DH for 2 years now and we were dating on and off for 3 before that. I've found that since we started living together the sex has just become boring or non existant unless Im ovulating and we have to DTD but then its with a means to an end and the romance and lust is just not there. We used to go at it everytime we saw eachother when we were dating then when we began living together it just died why or why does this happen, I feel like a sex freak when I want to have sex and I feel like Im the one who does all the instigating and quite frankly it doesn't really make me feel good. I mean he's a very sexual person and will go off to relieve himself when he needs some stress relief.I know its normal and most men do it but I feel like Im cheated of our time together especially when we do it so rarely. He is a very touchy person and will kiss and hug me and grope me, I start to get all hot and bothered and hope ...yes finally he's instigating sex and the he just stops and Im left out in the cold.... . I do dress up for him and try and titilate him and it usually works but I wish he'd do it for me too sometimes....He knows how I feel but its like talking to a brick wall ...he still continues on his merry way and Does nothing about it.does anyone else have similar issues, I'd really hope Im not the only one out there who feels like this?