Just wondering if it is a communication problem, and not really a sex problem.

Are you guys still talking about other things happening in your life?

I notice that you have recently lost a little one. Do you think this might be making it harder for the two of you to talk. Is it possible your partner is worried about how you are coping? Or feeling bad, but not wanting to 'upset' you by talking about the bub?

When he hugs you etc, do you let him know that you want to take it further? Sometimes men aren't that good at reading subtle signs and need it spelled out for them.

take care,

kate