I have one & my Mum is soooooo againts them, she has always said no child of mine is allowed back into my house if they get a tatoo!!!! so what do I do, got & get the biggest I can find LOL!!! she's never seen it, it's on my lower back but it goes from one side to the other & I'm ashamed to say I've always wanted a tatoo but never had done so. Then when DH & I were trying to spice things up a bit after DS was born we went out & got drunk & he suggested it as he thought it would be sexy. So it doesn't mean anything!!! but DH still thinks it's sexy. I really want DH to get one & he does also just havn't done so yet.