DD2 doesn't go to sleep until about 9pm which means my bedtime after I've faffed around is usually close to midnight.

They usually wake me around 7am and dd2 usually wakes around 3am.

DP works shifts so often isn't in bed till 2am or later. If its a kindy day the deal is he gets up to help and has a nap later. I used to do the whole morning thing as well as the dinner/bath/bed thing on my own as well as letting him have an afternoon nap but something had to give.

He also works weekends so no taking it in turns for lie ins unfortunately.