:-( It is horrible hearing stories of peoples struggles. One of the guys I sit next to at work, his wife just had a m/c. He told me on Tuesday they were approx. 10 weeks pg but his wife started spotting so they went to get an u/s yesterday to see what was going on & there was just the sac. They think she lost bubs at 5/6 weeks. I just sat there totally crushed for him & his wife and all I could say was 'I'm sorry'. He has to see me twice a week getting fatter by the day whilst they go through another m/c. It is so not fair.
Your work colleague is lucky to have your understanding and compasion. Alot of people just wouldn't bother seeing if she was ok. I hope she gets her wish to become a mother really soon ((hugs))