I'm so sorry that you are feeling this way, but after all that you have gone through it is very understandable.

I wish that I had some answers - but I dont. I know that in talking to the councillors at our clinic, they have said that anything up to 8-10 transfers before a BFP is normall - easy for them to say, but that is very hard to take if you are the one getting your hopes up each time and then facing the sadness of each loss!

I think that asking your fs to do some further investigation is a good idea - and it is something that i am thinking about if our next transfer (which will be our 5th as well) is not succesful.

As for your dh, i'm not sure what you can do there. i guess it is a matter of keeping talking so he understands how important this is to you, and to both of you. maybe you could go back to councillor and discuss how things are going...i dont know if that would help you both.

i wish that there was more that i could say to help, but i understand how hard it is at the moment so is about the best i can offer. i'm sure that you wil get your beautiful baby soon - it just might take a little bit longer than you hope.

take care and good luck
fg