elle - i actually dont have a list of questions yet... which is very unlike me! usually i have about 5-10 dotpoints that i take with to make sure i have all my questions answered, but not sure which questions to ask this time. we are unexplained and will be checking the embryos to see if they are chromosomally normal, so im not sure what else to ask for. id like to know if they can tell if our embryos arent that great, if its a sperm issue or egg issue. ive heard that poor fert. rates can indicate egg issue, and that a signficant drop off rate from day 3 to day 5 can indicate a sperm issue. but this is just what ive read. who knows. sorry you had to abandon your last cycle, but as sunbeam said good news you are going again. can i ask why you take ovidrel every 3rd day?

sunbeam - im sorry you're weekend was a bit sad. i think delaying thinking about that line in sand is a good idea, you are right - its not helping you now to think about it. doesnt mean you are not being realistic about it, just ignoring it for now... good job on having some time at home today, and even better on the movies & junk food. im jealous.