wow samandpoppy: sorry i havn't replied, havn't been ob BB for a little while.
the surrogate thing sounds a bit scary for me but do your reasearch and it may be an option for you.

as for all the other stress, i know how you feel. another month wait for me while we finalise all this bank stuff, but hey i think i'll get some better quality eggs if i am not stressed out to the max.

chat soon