Long Term Assisted Conception - 2010

[dreamrise659]

Hi Everyone,

Possum & dreamrise please make sure you stick around and let us know how you are going i want to hear EVERYTHING, ultrasound's, leg cramps, morning sickness,bubba kicking and boobs leaking lol we have been following you for so long, so please dont leave us now! sending lots of sticky vibes and belly rubs your way xx

Mummy2chloe, thanks for the invite to stick around... hope it's okay with everyone else.

I emailed my former private sperm donor to let him know I had finally had success with IVF and he was over the moon for me. It was really nice to know that he could share my happiness even though he wasn't part of my success. He said that he would like to stay in touch to hear how the pregnancy progresses.

Today I got a little bit of morning sickness for the first time. I was suprised because I only started getting it around the 10 week mark when I was pregnant with my daughter. I'm only 6 and a half weeks now.

My parents are currently overseas and I sent them an email today and commented on the morning sickness. My mum wrote back and said - well just think how much money you have spent just so you can get those sick feelings!!! LOL

Heart beat scan next Thursday which I am really looking forward to (hopefully it will be reassuring).

Lori
Started donor hunt Dec 2006, Started donor insemination Jan 09, Started IVF Feb 10. BFP on 3rd fresh cycle IVF

[mummy2chloe]

Dreamrise that is AWESOME news about your donor being so happy and supportive! its so nice to hear good stories like that woohoooo on morning sickness lol ahhhhh the things we get excited about lol cant wait to hear about your scan thursday! make sure you come in and let me know how you go, will be thinking about you xx

Possum i hope your travelling along well, always thinking of you and still very very very excited about your little bubba

to all my other lovely ladies, i hope your coping well and holding your head high! our day IS coming........May 2011 bring us lots of money, tar like stickyness to hold our bubba's and supercharged action hero sperm that could inpregnat a man hehehehe

thinking of you all

xxxx

[JBM]

dreamrise, such good news. keep up the good work and spread some baaby vibes to the rest of us.
mummy2chloe, this is going to be our year. 2011 is a lucky year, i said so. stick vibes and hero sperm for you, my DH had the piranha sperm but trapped due to vas for past 8 years. so annoying.lol

afm: nothing happening for a few months, got a wedding (not mine), tooth surgery, and need to get some more money too. so just waiting for now.

chat soon

[Possums]

dreamrise- great news and best of luck again for that scan

JBM- hope the tooth surgery goes ok and you can save the money you need to move things forward again soon

m2c- hope this is a great year for you x

loops- best of luck this month, fingers crossed

to everyone else- hope you are all doing ok, so hoping for more BFPs in here soon

afm- so far so good. 7 weeks today. 8 week scan coming up. nervous and happy

[JBM]

counting down til FS app at end of feb, not long to go now. x

[Loula]

That is exciting news for you JBM, i will be stalking you and praying for your sticky xx

[dusty]

Awesome JBM! xx

[JBM]

thanks guys, need all the luck i can get for 2011.

[mummy2chloe]

oh how exciting will be here on the sideline cheering you on through the whole thing!

[JBM]

picking up my needles in 6 days. yipee. IVF/ ICSI cycle number 2 and baby are on the way. fingers crossed

hope everyone is well. x

[mummy2chloe]

woooohoooooo so happy and very excited for you JBM!!

This is "The cycle " that is going to give you your forever bubba

i will be here holding your hand and offering as much support as i can!!

bring on 6 days time

[JBM]

nothing is happening in here atm. i have my needles and will start jabbing/ sniffing in the next 10 days or so for IVF/ ICSI full stim number 2 cycle. i have a very positive good feeling that this is going to be the one for me. yipee

hope everyone is well

[Loops12]

Hi Lovely Ladies

Dreamrise ~ so nice to hear stories like yours :-) All the best with the rest of your pregnancy, will be thinking of you.

Possums ~ thank you very much. All the best with the rest of your pregnancy too and will be thinking of you.

Mummy2chloe ~ good to hear from you, all the best with the weight loss

JBM ~ again goodluck hun, FX'd for you!

Hi to everyone else and hope you're all well

AFM ~ Still waiting to be able to test - I think I have about 8days until AF would be due. Still had constipation type pain and problems - hoping its all good things. Also my nipples are quite sore. I guess there isnt a lot of difference though from previous cycles that have all ended in BFN. Can only hope though that this month we get a miracle!

[dreamrise659]

Hi girls,
Just thought I'd pop in to wish you all luck with your current cycles. Reading back over the posts I realised that I haven't posted since before my threatened miscarriage. I lost 2 cups of blood at 7.5 weeks of pregnancy and was told I had definately lost the bub. Luckily a scan the next day showed it was still hanging in there and I am now 17 weeks pregnant.

I have struggled a little with this pregnancy as it was so different to how I had planned for so long. I had always wanted to know the donor I used and keep in touch through the pregnancy (just the occassional email) but as I ended up having to go to IVF with anon clinic donor sperm it hasn't been possible. I have realised I am grieving for this loss as I had spent 2 years trying to find a suitable donor and then a year doing donor insemination so it was a huge investment of time for nothing as it turns out. At my first hospital midwife appointment the nurse asked me about the father and when I said it was an anon clinic donor she commented "So this baby will be a real surprise package". I felt that she said it in a judgemental way and it made me really upset because I thought - if only you knew how long and hard I have tried to make this not be the case. I really wanted to know about the donor. Anyway I am grateful I am pregnant and I have had some counselling to deal with the other issues.

Hopefully find out the gender in a few weeks. I will also be out of work in a couple of weeks which is scarey but I have negoiated with my parents to stop my repayments off my IVF loan until I get another job and I think with money from centrelink and my housemate I should just manage to get by (I have a huge mortgage so was worried I would end up losing my house but I think I will just scrape by).

Best wishes everyone.
Lori

[Loops12]

Lori ~ so happy for you that your lil one is sticking, really wants to meet his/her wonderful mummy! Goodluck, FX'd tight

[Loula]

Lori many congratulations and isnt every baby a real supprise? I knowmy DS was and is. everyone is so supprised he is a mini ME not DH! lol

[Loops12]

Hi Lovely Ladies

Hope you are all well.

AF definitely arrived for me Giving up on trying naturally as we've tried everything we can that way. Think our only chance now is IVF or adoption etc. We are going to start looking into adoption now whilst we are still young.

[Lenny]

Loops.