Bee I'm very sorry for your loss.


Having had an ectopic and a chemical pg too this year ........I would like to comment the following..
...doing an IVF cycle I put my heart in my hands and ever so eagerly focus on the opportunity possible, if I get the elusive BFP then I would think look at what I've been able to achieve, whereas the BFN comes as a soul/dream destroyer.......so I take reponsibility for the getting the BFP but not for the BFN or even worse MAYBE PG.....