hi Molly,

It took us until the 7th transfer for it be the right one.......and this was spread over a period of about 15 months on IVF....and lots of trying before that and in between! Who knows why some take first one, 7th one or 20th one... for me it was my 2nd FRESH transfer, and I this one was the ONLY embryo I was left with after the Stim cycle...but it only takes one..........and it was the one for us - now 22 weeks preggo....amazing.

I have also been told that the average success rate is about 8-10 attempts. But remember this means that average, so many take a little longer....much easier to say but not so easy to wait. This is what I hated - waiting and not feeling in control, particularly since my first child was conceived naturally in a space of 3 months !!!

MY VERY best of luck to you. We do know what you are going through and here to listen.