Sue- no problem at all.
At the end of the day it has to be her decision, but I totally understand where you are coming from.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing. But none of us "get it", until it is too late!
At least she is getting on with life. I think I have spent way to much time caught up with TTC then with actul living. If that makes sence.
And you are right next year is not far away at all.
XXX