Hey Lise,

Thanks for responding.

I agree with you - if there was a decision to be made i would take FS advice over TCM. But I think in the end I have found it to be complementary so far.

I guess the one thing that still mystifies me a little is that after our first cycle did not work, I only spoke with the nurse over the ph and she pretty much left it up to me as to if we wanted to wait a month or go back into FET straight away there was no advice which was better - other than Ov may be delayed after a stim cycle. There was no discussion about what my body my be ready for, no checking of my body as such. Only now when we are doing scans to try catch Ov are we checking my body.

So maybe given that TCM Dr looked at ME a little more in depth it gave me some confidence that maybe I should listen to her a bit. Mind you - is looking at my tongue, taking temp and pulse really all that much more?!

I think we all need to find what works for us and makes us comfortable. I am sure that if I get a BFP this time round that it won't be just related to the herbs and acupuncture!! But I will never know if it really did help either!!