It was trying very, very hard. 4 m/c's in that time I am much, much younger than you (not too sure if I should say my age, might make people think differently about me lol!) but it was the best decision we could have made, TTC early. Especially as we want a large family. Money isn't everything to us, but it was an important deciding factor. But when our fertility issues came to the fore, that took priority over everything else.