I used to try to be good, and feel bad if I got drunk. My life changed and I avoided friends and events because I knew everyone would be drinking and I couldn't. Sometimes I'd go and just let loose, then feel really guilty afterwards. After 11 months of TTC I don't give myself grief any more, I try to be good, but I still have a few drinks on a few occasions.
I agree with you - it feels like punishment and you just can't live like that long term. I think it's a personal decision. Personally for me, I know way too many friends who got pregnant straight away and were out drinking etc ! I don't know the answers though. After 3 years, is drinking the odd glass of wine really going to be the reason you haven't fallen pregnant? I doubt it !
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